Have you ever looked at your business, your schedule or even your daily life and thought, This isn’t what I signed up for?
Maybe you started your business with the dream of freedom – more time, more flexibility, more fulfilment. But somewhere along the way, that freedom turned into overwhelm. You’re working more hours than ever, saying yes when you want to say no and struggling to switch off even when you’re with your family.
I get it … because I’ve been there.
For years, I chased a version of success that I thought I was supposed to want. Long hours, saying yes to everything, prioritising my business above all else, because that’s what it takes to build something successful, right?
Wrong.
Behind the scenes, I was exhausted, overwhelmed and questioning if it was even worth it. My business looked great from the outside, but inside? It was running me into the ground.
That was my wake-up call. I realised that I had built a business that didn’t actually support my life, it took from it. And that’s when everything changed.
If any of this sounds familiar, it’s time for a little self reflection. Because the truth is, most of us unknowingly build a business based on what we think we should do, instead of what actually aligns with the life we want.
So let me ask you:
Most of us start a business for freedom, but we accidentally create something that feels just as restrictive as a 9-5 (if not more). Alignment isn’t a luxury, it’s the foundation of a sustainable, fulfilling business.
If you’re not aligned, then what’s the point?
If this is resonating with you, I don’t want you to just read this and move on. I want you to take action. Because awareness without action changes nothing.
Let’s go through a simple yet powerful exercise to help you get clear on where you’re at right now and where you actually want to be.
For a moment, forget how things are and focus on how you want them to be. If there were no limits, no financial stress, no time constraints … what would your ideal life + business look like?
Ask yourself:
✨ What does my dream day look like from start to finish?
✨ How many hours am I working? What kind of work am I doing?
✨ How do I feel in my business? Energised? At ease? Excited?
✨ What do I have space for outside of work – family, hobbies, travel, rest?
Take a deep breath and look at what you wrote down. This is your vision.
This is what alignment looks like for you.
How does your current life and business compare to the vision you just wrote? Be honest:
When I did this exercise for myself, my biggest realisation was that I told myself I was building my business for my family, but my reality? I was constantly distracted, glued to my phone, snappy and stressed. That wasn’t alignment … it was hustle disguised as purpose.
This part might feel uncomfortable. But this is your wake up call.
Where is there a disconnect between what you want and how you’re actually living?
Now, it’s time to take action. And before you panic – no, you don’t need to burn everything down and start over. Alignment happens in small, daily choices.
Ask yourself:
💡 What’s one thing I can let go of that’s keeping me out of alignment?
💡 What’s one boundary I need to set – whether it’s with clients, my schedule or myself?
💡 What’s one habit or routine I can start implementing this week that will move me closer to my ideal life + business?
For me, the shift started with setting boundaries around my work hours – no more late night client calls. It meant choosing only the projects and clients that felt right. It meant building a business that fit my life, instead of squeezing my life into my business.
What’s one small shift you can make today?
Here’s the truth: The version of you that is fully aligned – the one who wakes up excited, who works smarter instead of harder, who feels fulfilled, isn’t some distant dream.
She already exists inside you.
But she needs you to start choosing her. Every. Single. Day.
So, I want to challenge you – what’s one small shift you’re committing to today? Because the business you dream of? It doesn’t start someday. It starts today.
If this resonated with you, I want you to know – you don’t have to figure this out alone.
That’s exactly why I created the Life Aligned Business Mastermind – a high touch coaching space designed for women who want to grow a thriving business without the overwhelm.
Inside, we focus on:
✔ Aligning your business with the lifestyle you actually want
✔ Smart, strategic growth so you can work smarter, not harder
✔ Community and coaching so you never have to do this alone
You get weekly coaching, co-working and the kind of support that actually moves the needle in your business.
✨ Doors are open NOW ✨
If you’re ready to step into alignment and build a business that truly supports your life, come join us.
Because your business should work for you, not the other way around.
P.S. Did this hit home for you? Let me know in the comments or send me a DM on Instagram – I’d love to hear what shift you’re committing to! 💜