Why your business isn’t working the way you thought and what to do

Have you ever felt like you’re doing all the things in your business, checking off to-do lists, showing up online, working late nights, yet somehow nothing seems to be moving forward?

You’re not alone. I see this all the time with the women I work with: frustrated, overwhelmed and questioning whether all their hard work is even worth it.

Here’s the truth: just because you’re busy doesn’t mean your business is working for you. Sometimes, it’s not about doing more, it’s about doing the right things in a way that actually supports your life, your energy and your goals.

If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels and start seeing real results, here’s how to figure out what’s really going on and what to do about it.

Why your business Might Not Be Working

There are a few common reasons your business might feel stuck, even when you’re working really hard:

Busy work vs aligned work

Ever end the day feeling exhausted, but when you look back, nothing you did actually moved your business forward? That’s busy work.
Busy work makes us feel productive, but it doesn’t create results. Aligned work is about doing the things that actually move the needle for your income, impact, or freedom.

Misaligned priorities

Your business might not reflect your current life season. Maybe you’re juggling kids, a part-time job, or other commitments. If your business doesn’t fit around your life, not the other way around, you’ll feel constantly off balance and frustrated.

Energy vs action mismatch

Trying to do your most important work when your energy is low is a recipe for burnout. You might think pushing through will help but it usually just drains you and slows your progress.

Chasing the wrong metrics

Likes, followers, or “busy-ness” are tempting to measure success by but these don’t always translate into clients, income or impact. Focus on the metrics that actually matter for your business.

Comparison trap

Seeing someone else’s success and thinking, “I should be there too” can derail your focus. Your business path is unique and constantly comparing yourself will only create stress and self doubt.

How to Start Fixing It

Here’s where the magic happens: you can course correct and it doesn’t have to be complicated.

Check your top 3 priorities

Take a moment to write down your top three priorities in life + business.

• Does your current schedule reflect these priorities?
• If not, what can you change this week to bring your actions in line with what truly matters?

Audit your energy + focus

Ask yourself:

• Which tasks give me energy?
• Which drain me?

Stop doing or delegate the things that drain you. Your business should support your life, not steal from it.

Focus on results, not effort

Look at what’s actually producing results, clients, income or impact and double down. Small tweaks in strategy, focus or messaging can have a huge effect.

Celebrate wins, even small ones

It’s easy to ignore what’s working. But celebrating even small wins builds momentum and confidence. You’ll be surprised how much this shifts your mindset and motivation.

Journal + reflect

Take a few minutes to answer these questions:

1. What’s not working in my business?
2. What am I holding onto that doesn’t serve me?
3. What one change would make the biggest difference right now?

These reflections create clarity, and clarity is the first step toward aligned action.

Mindset Blocks That Could Be Holding You Back

Even with clarity, your mindset can trip you up. These sneaky blocks stop you from taking aligned action, even when you know what to do.

Imposter syndrome / fear of showing off

That voice that whispers, “Who do you think you are? You’re not ready yet” or “If I share my wins, people will think I’m a bragger”? That’s imposter syndrome.

• Why it happens: Childhood or societal messaging that standing out is wrong. Maybe confidence = arrogance in your past experience.
• Signs it shows up: Hesitating to post your wins, downplaying results, overexplaining or apologizing for charging your worth.
• How to shift it: Reframe sharing wins as serving your audience, start with small posts, and affirm your expertise regularly.

Perfectionism

The belief that nothing can launch, post, or share until it’s perfect.

• Why it happens: Fear of judgment or desire for control.
• Signs: Endless planning, obsessing over every detail, delaying projects.
• How to shift it: Give yourself a “good enough” rule, permission to fail, and time-box tasks. Done is better than perfect.

Guilt / people pleasing

Sacrificing your priorities to make others happy.

• Why it happens: Conditioning that putting yourself first is selfish.
• Signs: Saying yes to things you don’t want to do, avoiding boundaries, guilt around promoting yourself or raising prices.
• How to shift it: Redefine selfishness, practice small boundaries, and reconnect with your why: your business exists to support your life and clients.

Bottom line: You can take aligned action without feeling greedy, pushy, or selfish. Seeing these blocks for what they are, old programming, fear or guilt gives you the power to move through them.

Take Action Today

You don’t need to wait for a workshop to start feeling the difference. Here’s a mini exercise you can do right now:

1. Write down your top 3 life + business priorities
2. Highlight 1 or 2 things you’re doing this week that don’t align with them
3. Decide what you can delegate, stop, or adjust to bring your actions into alignment

Even small changes can shift your energy and results almost immediately.

How This Leads Into Q4

If you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of your next steps, it’s the perfect time to pause and realign.

That’s exactly what I’ll be helping women do in my Q4 workshop. Together, we’ll:

• Review your business and life.
• Identify what’s working and what’s not.
• Create an actionable plan to finish the year strong.

By the end of the workshop, you’ll feel:

• Aligned with your priorities
• Focused on what matters
• Confident in the actions you take moving forward
• Empowered to finish 2025 with clarity and momentum

Your next step

If you’re ready to take real, aligned action in your business, join me for the Q4 workshop. Walk away with a plan that actually works for your life + business, and start 2026 with clarity, confidence, and results.

Register your spot here for just $44